Whether you’re sadistic, masochistic, gentle, harsh, submissive, dominant, a tease, a brat, ANYTHING.
AFTERCARE IS A MUST. IT IS NOT AN OPTION. IT WILL NEVER BE AN OPTION.
Subs aren’t the only ones who need it. Doms need it too.
We need the reconnection and the aftercare just as much as subs do.
Being hurt and being in a scene requires coming down gently and safely. It’s the same for hurting someone. We need to come back from that too.
Bonus:
Anyone who ignores or neglects their sub as a punishment doesn’t deserve the title of a respected dom and I will personally come to your house and FIGHT YOU.
Thinking real hard about leaving this blog for my work and using my back up blog as a new nsfw personal blog where I can post and reblog people more freely since I won’t be inundated with gross porn blogs and bots
And since I’m posting about it there’s probably a 98% chance its gonna happen